BDSM dilators are not for everyone and are usually recommended for experienced users. Penetration of the urethra can be painful for beginners. Below we discuss some target groups for whom BDSM dilators are suitable:
FEMDOM LOVERS
For a female dominant partner, using a dilator can be a form of punishment and humiliation for the male submissive. It creates a mix of pain and excitement, which can be a powerful experience.
CBT (COCK AND BALL TORTURE) LOVERS
CBT users seek intense stimulation and pain stimuli. Dilators can be a valuable addition to their playful repertoire, especially for solo users who are familiar with the limits of their own bodies.
OLDER MEN WITH BLADDER DISORDERS AND ERECTILE PROBLEMS
For men who have problems with erections or bladder control, urethral stimulation with a dilator can help improve blood flow and sensitivity in the penis. This can contribute to improved sexual sensation, even without a full erection.
HOW TO USE A BDSM DILATOR?
Proper use of a BDSM dilator is crucial to ensuring a safe and pleasurable experience. Follow these steps:
PREPARATION
Make sure the penis is clean and do not use alcohol or other substances that can affect your experience. Touch the dilator with clean hands or latex gloves to prevent infections.
INSERTING DILATOR
Use a water-based lubricant to ensure a smooth experience. Insert the smallest size dilator slowly into the urethra and gradually increase the size as you gain experience.
DURING USE
Do not experience any pain during use. Be careful when reaching the depth of approximately 3 centimeters and stop if the stimulation becomes too intense. Carefully remove the dilator when the session is finished.
TO DELETE
Remove the dilator slowly while the penis is flaccid. Clean the dilator with a disinfectant toy cleaner after use and let it dry thoroughly before storing.
TYPES OF BDSM DILATORS
DILATORS WITH VIBRATION FUNCTION
Vibrating dilators provide extra stimulation through vibrations. They come in a variety of lengths and features, from simple on/off buttons to models with multiple vibration modes.
DILATORS WITH STIMULATING DESIGNS
These dilators have extra textures such as ridges or nubs to increase stimulation. The Hegar design with a slightly curved shape is a popular example that offers extra stimulation.
CLASSIC DILATORS
Classic dilators have a straight shape and are ideal for users who want to explore the basics without extra stimulation. They are usually made of sturdy materials such as stainless steel.
FLEXIBLE SILICONE DILATORS
Flexible dilators are made of silicone and easily conform to the shape of the urethra. They are soft and comfortable, making them a good choice for beginners.
CLEANING AND MAINTENANCE OF A DILATOR
It is essential to clean your dilator properly to prevent infection. Use a disinfectant toy cleaner and let the dilator dry completely before storing. Regularly applying lubricant will extend the life of your dilator and prevent damage to the material.
