DILDOS FOR BEGINNERS: WHAT TO LOOK FOR WHEN MAKING YOUR FIRST PURCHASE?

BUYING YOUR FIRST DILDO – EXCITING AND FUN!

Buying a dildo for the first time can be daunting. You might be curious, or perhaps a little unsure. And that’s perfectly okay! A dildo is a powerful tool for exploring your body and discovering your sexuality – alone or with a partner. In this guide, we’ll explain everything you need to know before buying your first dildo. That way, you can make a choice that you feel comfortable with.

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WHAT IS A DILDO ACTUALLY?

A dildo is a non-vibrating sex toy that is intended for penetration - vaginal or anal. They come in all shapes, colors and materials. Think of realistic models, G-spot dildos or small, discreet toys especially for beginners.

BUYING A DILDO FOR BEGINNERS – THE MOST IMPORTANT POINTS AT A GLANCE

As a beginner, you don't have to be overwhelmed by the stress of choosing. Here are the 7 most important things to consider when buying your first dildo:

1. 📏 SIZE: SMALL IS OKAY

If it is your first dildo, choose a smaller model. You don't have to go for something big right away. A length of 12-16 cm and a small diameter is perfect to start with. Comfort comes first.

Tip : Use a measuring tape or compare with an object to get a realistic idea of ​​the size.

2. 🌸 MATERIAL: SAFE AND BODY-FRIENDLY

Choose a dildo made from body-safe materials such as:

  • Silicone (soft touch) – flexible, hypoallergenic and easy to clean
  • Glass (borosilicate) – smooth, strong and hygienic (only if you dare)
  • ABS plastic or TPE – often cheaper,

Avoid toys made of jelly or rubber without a quality mark – they may contain plasticizers.

3. 💧 LUBRICANT: A MUST FOR COMFORT

Always use a good lubricant. For silicone dildos, a water-based lubricant is recommended. This prevents friction and makes the experience more pleasant and safe.

4. 🎯 INTENDED USE: G-SPOT, VAGINAL, ANAL?

What do you want to use the dildo for?

  • Vaginal? Choose a straight or slightly curved model
  • G-spot? Choose a curved dildo with a thickened tip
  • Anal ? Make sure you have a flared base so it can't slip through

5. 🤍 WITH OR WITHOUT SUCTION CUP?

A suction cup gives you extra possibilities. You can attach your dildo to a smooth surface and enjoy hands-free. Not essential for beginners, but fun to consider!

6. 👩❤️👨 SOLO OR WITH PARTNER?

If you want to experiment with a partner, choose a model that is comfortable for both of you. For example, consider a strap-on compatible dildo or a double-ended model.

7. 🧼 CLEANING AND MAINTENANCE

Hygiene is key. Choose a dildo that is easy to clean with warm water and a mild toy cleaner . Store your dildo in a clean, dry place – preferably in a separate bag.

SAFETY TIPS FOR BEGINNERS

  • Use condoms when sharing a dildo with your partner
  • Never use anal and vaginal stimulation with the same toy without cleaning
  • Stop if anything feels painful or uncomfortable

USING A DILDO FOR THE FIRST TIME? HERE'S HOW TO DO IT

  • Choose a relaxing moment
  • Provide privacy and time
  • Start with foreplay or external stimulation
  • Use enough lubricant
  • Start slowly, listen to your body
  • Experiment with depth and angle
  • Enjoy and discover what you like

RECOMMENDED DILDOS FOR BEGINNERS

At Erotic Accessories we have a selection of dildos that are perfect for beginners:

  • Satisfyer Dildo Gentle Classic – silicone, narrow, elegant
  • Icicles No. 8 – glass, small and stylish
  • LELO Ella – Double Sided with G-Spot Curve
  • Anal Fantasy Beginners Dildo – small, with flared base

Our products are safe and delivered discreetly.

FAQ – BEGINNERS QUESTIONS ABOUT DILDOS

Is it weird to use a dildo?
No! More and more people are discovering how normal and healthy it is to use a sex toy.

What if I find it exciting?
That's perfectly normal. Start slowly, don't force anything, and choose a toy that suits you.

How do I know which dildo is right for me?
Use this guide as a guideline, and choose based on material, size and purpose.

Can I return a dildo?
For hygienic reasons, opened sex toys usually cannot be returned. Always read the conditions.

CONCLUSION: YOUR FIRST DILDO? CHOOSE WITH YOUR HEART

Buying a dildo as a beginner doesn't have to be complicated. Follow your gut, choose quality and start small. At Erotiek-Accessoires we are happy to help you with personal advice and a wide range of reliable products. Make your first experience something beautiful!

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